Sunday, March 8, 2009

Mistakes in relationships and how to correct them

Driven by immediate gratification: Instead be driven by the beauty of evolution.

Too eager to unite: Instead be eager to learn.

Low-self esteem: Instead forgive yourself.

To dependent on love, yet don’t know what love is: Instead know that love is empty, it’s what you put in it that makes it love. What are you seasoning your love soup with?

No desire to grow: Instead stop trying to change others and embrace self growth.

Miss the lesson: Instead, Sankofa! Go back and get that lesson you missed.

Driven by drama: Instead learn to love in peace. Silence your demons so you are not tempted to turn up the volume in your relationships

Guilt about getting needs met: Instead stop feeling guilty about receiving love and show more gratitude towards the person that loves you. Blaming the other person can be traced back to guilt and unforgiveness of self. You want that person to punish you. The more they love you the more you lash out at them.

Brain damaged: Instead change your mind. This can be done. Some people have chemical imbalances that become more activated in love relationships. That’s because love releases soooo many chemicals that it can drive a sane man crazy. If you have a previous mental imbalance this can seriously damage your love relationships. Get help.

posted by Candi @ 12:05 PM  

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