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Relationships for learning

Many times we find ourselves in relationships that stress us out. Instead of taking the time to find out what that relationship is trying to teach us, we spend all of our time resisting and trying to change the other person. It is not until we learn the lesson within that relationship that we can fully let go or move on to the next level in that union.

One of the major mistakes in a relationship is that we ask of a person something different than what they are here to teach us. We may ask a partner to be more responsible, but maybe that partner is there to teach us to set boundaries for ourselves and stop taking on the responsibility of others.

So I challenge you today, find out what your relationships are trying to teach you. Stop blaming others for what they are not doing for you and learn from them what they came to teach you.

Even if the relationship is not good for you in the long run you can have peace in the midst of learning and growing and move on once the lesson is learned. Every relationship is not made to be fixed, some are meant to be exactly the way they are. The “worst” relationships are our best teachers. So, embrace your mistakes, your wins, and your loses for they are the soil in which you are to plant your spirit for your ascension to the next level.

Until next time,

“Reconstruct your world by reconstructing your mind”